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Part immersive theatre, part elegant matchmaking - all designed for those who’ve outgrown the apps.

Date & Detect: Premium experience. No swiping. Just solving.

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A new way to meet someone real

 

Date & Detect™ blends immersive storytelling with curated connection in an intimate setting - designed for those who value quality, presence, and genuine chemistry.

No small talk.
No swiping.
No crowd of 200 strangers.
Just connection with intention.

 Date & Detect™

What is it?

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Our Unique Experience

For professional singles who are tired of swiping, Date & Detect™ offers a night of purposeful intrigue. You’ll step into a luxury countryside venue, receive a light character card at the door, and engage in a murder-mystery story that creates connection before the small talk begins.

Matchmaking Magic

Experience the magic of meeting like-minded individuals in a setting filled with laughter and intrigue. Uncover shared interests and develop new connections in a fun and engaging environment.

No speed dating, no pressure. 

Solving Mysteries

Step into the role of a detective as you work with others to solve thrilling mysteries. Unravel clues, crack codes, and enjoy the thrill of decoding puzzles while forming bonds with your fellow sleuths.

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Request an invitation – Join the waitlist to be considered for the next curated group.

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Receive your event date – Once a group is confirmed, you’ll be invited to book your place at our chosen luxury venue.

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Connection through curiosity – The play creates natural moments to notice and be noticed. Bar and food breaks throughout the evening allow relaxed mingling.

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Complete your vetting form - A short form helps us ensure the guest mix is balanced and aligned; this is how tickets are cleared. 

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Step into the story – Arrive, collect your optional light character card on the night, and be guided into the mystery.

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The reveal – The case concludes, then the night opens into relaxed conversation; the space where connections deepen.

How it Works

Designed for...

✅ Professionals 30–60
✅ Intentional daters who value curiosity and depth
✅ People done with swiping and ready for spark through story

Not for... 

❌ Serial swipers
❌ People looking for heavy drinking / loud nightlife
❌ People who don’t enjoy curiosity or conversation

Why Join The Waitlist?

Men join because this is one of the few dating spaces where presence, character and confidence matter more than profiles or performance.


Women join because they’re tired of being treated like an option instead of a person.


Here, connection is earned; not assumed.

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Reveal a Clue. Enter your email below to subscribe and be entered into our prize draw for a chance to win a luxury spa treatment or a premium Tropic skincare gift bag.

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Date & Detect™ - A New Kind of Dating Experience

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Limited tickets. Gender-balanced guest list. Handpicked venue.

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Dates will be released once each guest list is curated and balanced. Join our waitlist to be considered for the next exclusive event.

We’re ditching the apps and creating real connection - with a twist.

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